Genuine Happines Comes From Inside Part 2

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within part 2

Genuine happiness isn’t about driving the hottest Formula 1 car, nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest 13th month pay, or beating the sales quota. Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life doesn’t always go to the fastest, the strongest, the bravest or not even the best. So, how do you become genuinely happy? Everyone has his own definition of ‘happiness’. Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much bestselling books as possible. Happiness for a basketball rookie may mean getting the rookie of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success. So, really now, how do we become genuinely happy? Simple. You don’t have to have the best things in this world. It’s about doing and making the best out of every single thing. When you find yourself smiling at your own mistake and telling yourself “Oh, I’ll do better next time”, you carry with you a flame of strong will power to persevere that may spread out like a brush fire. You possess a willingness to stand up again and try – that will make you a genuinely happy person.

When you learn to accept yourself and your own faults. You pass step 1 in the project “how to become genuinely happy”. For as long as you know how to accept others, you will also be accepted. For as long as you love and know how to love, you will receive love ten folds back.
Again, throw me that same question “how to become genuinely happy?”. I’ll refer you to a friend of mine who strongly quoted- “Most of us know that laughter is the best medicine to life’s aches and pain. But most of us don’t know that the best kind of laughter is laughter over self. Coz then you don’t just become happy… you become free.”
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I truly appreciate you.
Bernard

Genuine Happines Comes From Inside Part 2

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within part 1
Life isn’t the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when I feel like the world is just too heavy, I look around and find people who continued to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into my mind like bubbles from nowhere – “How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life?” Then I pause and observed for awhile… I figured out that maybe, they start to work on a place called ‘self’.
So, how does one become genuinely happy? Step 1 is to love yourself.
My theology professor once said that “loving means accepting.” To love oneself means to accept that you are not a perfect being, but behind the imperfections must lie a great ounce of courage to be able to discover ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from our mistakes.
Genuine happiness also pertains to contentment. When you are contented with the job you have, the way you look, with your family, your friends, the place you live in, your car, and all the things you now have – truly, you know the answer to the question “how to be genuinely happy.”
When we discover a small start somewhere from within, that small start will eventually lead to something else, and to something else. But if you keep questioning life lit it has never done you any good, you will never be able to find genuine happiness.
I believe that life is about finding out about right and wrong, trying and failing, winning and losing. These are things that happen as often as you inhale and exhale. Failure, in a person’s life has become as abundant and necessary as air. But this should not hinder us from becoming happy.
How to be genuinely happy in spite all these? I tell you… every time you exert effort to improve the quality of life and your being, whether it is cleaning up your room, helping a friend, taking care of your sick dog, fail on board exams and trying again, life gives you equivalent points for that.
Imagine life as a big score board like those which are used in the NFLs. Every time you take a step forward, you make scoring points. Wouldn’t it be nice to look at that board at the end of each game and think to yourself “Whew! I got a point today. I’m glad I gave it a shot.”, instead of looking at it all blank and murmur “Geez, I didn’t even hit a score today. I wish I had the guts to try out. We could have won!” and then walk away.
Stay tune for part two.
tritz.bernard@gmail.com
As a mentor and one command coach I can help you find true happiness. Follow the link
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Or give me a call anytime
250 658 6703
I truly appreciate you.

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

Progamming the mind

How does this work? When I focus on getting read of what I don’t want to be able to get what I want I end up getting what I don’t want. And I don’t want it I am very firm about this. I DON’T WANT IT. I have made the decision not to want the things I don’t want, and repetitively I continue to receive what I don’t want. I just don’t get it…
Does that sound familiar? Can you identity with the statement above? Do you find yourself going around in circle fighting the current, swimming upstream, getting what you don’t want instead of what you want? Why why why why why? Nothing is ever working for me?
I have pondered the same questions over and over again and this is what I found. When I go white water rafting with friends, none of us ever mentioned to go upstream for a change, we always go downstream. Make sense doesn’t it? My life is like the rapids we go rafting on. Life is like the river flowing fast, sometime we feel to fast. And for whatever reason it is a recognized practice to “swim upstream” to Fight the current”. We are encouraged since birth to be a fighter, we need it to survive. The “secret” if there is one is to go with the current if the river of your life. Since I realized that I am getting what I want.
Yes we heard it many times, I don’t have enough money. I can’t afford this. My salary is not big enough for my expenses. I can hardly make ends meet. Just add you own. Then we expect the opposite to realize itself. We tell ourselves this thing. We repeat the same story over and over again. We tell it tour friends our family our children and everyone willing to listen. Then we are surprised when we are getting exactly what we are speaking. How’s that. Simple. What I ask of life, life will give. When I confess “ I have no money” Life says OK here “no money” it’s yours. So I turn the story around. I have plenty of money. Life says? Here is plenty of money. That simple…. Now wait a minute not so fast. How long did it take for the programming to take place? It is going to take some work to re program the mind to think “downstream”. So I want to travel from point A to point B. Distance 400 miles. Great at speed limit considering traffic and all let say 5 hours. So I get in the car I have no doubt I am going to get there. It’s going to take 5 hours. How long is it going to take for me to change the programming? Does it matter I will get what I want. So I started the journey. Staying on the positive side of life will guaranty success. Every so often something will happen that will drag me back to the negative side. Well I need to be aware of it and move to the positive side. How you may ask. Easy, whatever it is if it feels good you’re on the right side if it create negative feelings you’re on the wrong side. Talking to myself help bringing me back. Listening to positive affirmative talk and people will guaranty my position on the right side. Ignoring even walking away from negative people is a must. Turn the TV, news paper, radio off. Turn your inside voice on, listen to your inner self telling you what to do. Listen to the life energy inside of you.
Need some help? Having difficulties doing it by yourself? Normal we’re not super heroes you know. To many people around you trying to drag you down?
We’re here to help. Go to this site now, download the e book. When you do I will be notified. I will then get in touch with you and show you how you can do it. That you’re not alone.
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I promise to believe in you until you believe in yourself.
Take care
Bernard Tritz
250 658 6703
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Progamming the mind